You don't mess with family....

Hey classy girls! It's been a while, I know, but you all should probably know that 1)I'm literally WEEKS away from finishing college, (yeah!) 2)I'm between jobs, and 3)I'M PLANNING A WEDDING! (shout out to my fiance pip. :D) So, needless to say, I've been pretty busy throughout these past few months. SO happy and exciting things happening! :D Any who, so here is this month's classy girl. Lately I've found that people in my inner circle are being...used. Abused. Emotionally. Physically. Now, those of you who know me, know that if you're in my inner circle, you're considered part of my family. It takes a lot of trust to even begin to let you into my "circle", so again, if you're there, you're in it for a reason. So, I'm guessing that you all have some sort of inner circle, or close group of friends and family that you absolutely could not live without. Am I right? Of course I am. ;) So what do you do when they're being attacked/abused/used/etc? Well, here's the thing: Classy girls NEVER get involved with drama that doesn't have anything to do with them. But here's a faux pax so to speak...if it involves your family, of COURSE it involves you. So here's what you should do: ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Now, of course, it's important that you be there for that person, cause chances are you're in THEIR circle as well, and they need someone to listen to them. Offer advice, let them know you're here for them. But DO NOT get all up in the situation like you own it. Not only is it dangerous, but you might not know all the facts and when that happens, YOU usually end up looking like the ass. Classy girls are good friends. Remember that, especially when your family or friends are gettin' all sad and stuff. Love you all! Stay Classy! :D --Heavan!